jvcarroll
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I get what you're saying However,f*ggot means something different to me as a gay man than it does other gay folk who endured far more in their lives with that word being the centerpiece. It's much easier to tell people to get over things than it is for us to stop ourselves, to apologize and to empathize. It's out of bounds to tell any black person, a person with a history of slavery, segregation, persecution, and lynching in their family history, that the N word is just a word and that they shouldn't be so sensitive. We ALL have certain words, phrases or topics that set us off when people are careless with them. I get the point, but we're nowhere near there. Not by a mile.One of the best ways to start repairing the cracks in this country is to finally embrace words for what they are - to quote George Carlin, "They're only words!" If people stopped getting offended for every little thing and actually started accepting the language and allowing others to use it, people would get ticked off less, there'd be more happiness, and we'd finally learn to let these words exist and be done with it. If we don't accept that such language exists and people can say it, then all through life it's gonna be tough for you. Instead, just embrace them, stop policing language, and we might get somewhere. The less people look at such words as "foul", "corruptible", "offensive", etc, the faster we'll get on track to reaching a point where we can all live as one. We may even see a good decline in racism. "Blacks can say the N-word and I can't??" Y'know? IDK, I think it's time we put petty **** like language aside and actually let freedom of speech take place and we might see something good happen. Not that I'm advocating the use of bigoted terms outright, but if we get used to them their impact will lessen on us and they'll eventually just become another part of the English language. Y'know?
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