To be completely fair, there are two versions of what was said in the phone conversation. The democratic congresswoman claims that President Trump told the widow "He knew what he was signing up for." which in itself is an incredibly insensitive thing to say. BUT the other version is that President Trump said, "He knew what he signed up for, but when it happens, it still hurts terribly and is a great loss." Which, given the first sentence, in context, makes it a whole lot more sensitive. And anybody that has served in the military will tell you they knew what they signed up for. The democratic congresswoman, who was not a part of the conversation, peppers her claims with phrases like, "said something like". She also goes on to say about the incident "this could be another Benghazi". Sure seems like the good congresswoman from Florida is trying to politicize the loss. On the other hand, several staffers were in the room when President Trump made the phone call and claim his version is accurate. But I would expect them to back the President's version.
I'm not sure who is right here. But I'm guessing, like most issues, the truth is somewhere in the middle.
And I really don't want to debate a he said, she said story here. I'm not taking sides on which side is correct. I'm simply pointing out that there are two versions out there of this story.